In Nigeria, custom and traditions have it that children who cannot be cared for by their parents are taken in by someone within their extended family. The idea of taking in, or adopting, a child that is not any way related to the family, is highly uncommon. The notion of adopting an unrelated child that has special needs (for example those with physical or mental challenges or are ill with diseases such as sickle cell anemia or HIV) or those who are orphaned because of a taboo; for instance, children born of incestuous relationships, or children who for variety of reasons are identified as witches) is unheard of. Children who are abandoned most often find themselves in the state or private orphanages. Most of these institutions do not have the manpower, expertise or resources to care for children who need extra or specialized care. In some states, like Lagos state, when an orphan reaches the age of 8 or 9, they are moved to state remand homes which are institutions for youth criminal and delinquents. Every child is a gift. Ebunoluwa foundation believes that social attitudes towards orphans and special needs children must change. It is not enough to allow them to just 'survive'. If a loving, caring home can be found for children; adoptions should not only be made possible, but should be encouraged, both within Nigeria and internationally. The adoption programme facilitated by Ebunoluwa Foundation is therefore vital for two main reasons: Firstly, it greatly improve the lives of the individual children involved; since its inception in 2003, the foundation have facilitated the adoption of over 400 children with suitable families from the Netherlands, Sweden, and New Zealand. Most of these adopted children have physical and medical challenges such as HIV, hepatitis B, some are deaf, has vision problems or sickle cell Anemia, cerebral palsy just mention a few. Secondly, the success of our programme is that it impacts on the attitude towards vulnerable children in the society. Those who have been involved in the adoption programme have seen the benefits to the individual children and have understood that every child provided with an enabling environment can thrive and grow to be positive contributor to society. As part of our on- going effort to monitor the well-being of the children that are adopted outside of Nigeria, a representative of the Foundation pays a follow up visits from time to time to the children in the Netherlands and Sweden.
Furthermore, government officials from Ekiti, Lagos, Ondo, Osun state also visited the children at various times during the year. All have been able to establish that the children are thriving in their new families. Furthermore, through the process of working with the orphanages, other children are identified that benefit through the other programme of the Ebunoluwa foundation, such as the medical and scholarships projects. Also, the adoption programme puts the foundation in touch with key Federal and State government officials as well as in the wider social services including the orphanages and other related services such as the Police and Immigration services. Through its working relationships, the foundation is able to develop a targeted advocacy programme which aims to change legislation, practices and attitudes within the social welfare system. Finally, the adoptions programme has provided a financial base from which the foundation can expand its services and outreach programmes. For each foreign adoption, the foundation receives a service fee which supports the foundation's running costs. Donations, from the adoption agencies, adoptive families and well-meaning friends of the Foundation have further helped to keep its projects running.
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